This Too Shall Pass Butterfly Horizontal Bar Necklace

Some days you believe everything is going to work out. Other days you're sitting in your car wondering how your life turned into this particular episode of what the actual fuck.

The This Too Shall Pass Butterfly Necklace was made for both. Laser engraved with “this too shall pass” and a delicate butterfly on the front, and “But What the Fuck” on the back, this two-sided necklace is equal parts meaningful, sarcastic, and painfully relatable.

From the outside, it's a reminder that the hard season you're walking through won't last forever. Flip it over, and you'll find the private message for the days when knowing that still doesn't make any of this make sense.

Created for women navigating breakups, divorce, starting over, unexpected life changes, or just an exceptionally WTF chapter, this engraved butterfly necklace offers encouragement without pretending everything is fine.

Because you can believe better days are coming and still be completely unimpressed with what it takes to get there.

A Butterfly Necklace for the Hard Days and New Beginnings

Front engraving: this too shall pass with a minimalist butterfly
Back engraving: But What the Fuck

Butterflies are often associated with transformation, freedom, and new beginnings. Which sounds lovely until you're the one actually going through the transformation.

Because starting over isn't always graceful. Sometimes it looks like making difficult decisions, rebuilding your confidence, crying in your car, and wondering how the hell you're supposed to figure everything out.

The This Too Shall Pass Butterfly Necklace is a reminder that you don't have to love the process to appreciate the progress.

The slim horizontal bar keeps the inspirational message and butterfly visible while hiding a little sarcasm on the reverse. Wear the encouragement where the world can see it and keep the rest between you and yourself.

Because sometimes transformation looks like gracefully spreading your wings.

And sometimes it looks like whispering “what the fuck” and carrying on anyway.

A Funny Encouragement Gift for a Woman Going Through a Hard Time

If you're searching for a gift for a woman going through a hard time, a breakup gift for a friend, or a meaningful divorce gift, this isn't another generic piece of inspirational jewelry telling her to stay positive.

It's a reminder that she can acknowledge how much something sucks while still believing she'll make it through.

Give it to your best friend after a breakup, your sister navigating a divorce, someone rebuilding after an unexpected life change, or the woman who's been handling more than anyone realizes.

Paired with a coordinating Living In Between butterfly message card, this necklace offers a little extra encouragement for the woman who's still figuring out what comes next.

The card reads:

“A little reminder that the version of you you're becoming is already enough. You've survived the hard days, outgrown the old shit, and kept showing up anyway. That's something worth celebrating.”

It's also a thoughtful new beginnings gift, starting-over necklace, funny friendship gift, or sarcastic motivational gift for someone who appreciates encouragement with a little honesty.

Or buy it for yourself.

Because if you've spent the last few months wondering how you're supposed to turn this particular life experience into personal growth, maybe you could use a reminder that you don't have to have everything figured out right now.

This too shall pass. But seriously, what the fuck?

Product Details

• Necklace Style: Double-sided horizontal bar necklace
• Pendant Size: 6 × 39 mm (0.24 × 1.54 inches)
• Necklace Length: 45 + 5 cm (17.7 inches + 2-inch extender)
• Material: Stainless steel, 18K gold plated, or 18K rose gold plated
• Engraving Technique: Laser engraving
• Front Engraving: “this too shall pass” with a minimalist butterfly design
• Back Engraving: “But What the Fuck”
• Two-Sided Design: Inspirational message and butterfly on the front with a hidden sarcastic message on the back
• Message Card: Coordinating Living In Between butterfly encouragement card

Perfect For

This necklace makes a memorable divorce gift for women, breakup gift for a friend, starting-over gift, funny encouragement gift, butterfly necklace for new beginnings, sarcastic friendship gift, motivational jewelry gift, or meaningful reminder for someone navigating one of life's harder chapters.

It's especially fitting for the woman who's rebuilding her confidence after heartbreak, learning to embrace an unexpected new beginning, rediscovering herself after a difficult season, or simply trying to get through the week without another character-building experience.

Because sometimes growth is beautiful.

And sometimes growth is absolute bullshit.

FAQ

What does the This Too Shall Pass Butterfly Necklace symbolize?

The necklace symbolizes hope, resilience, transformation, and new beginnings. The butterfly represents personal growth and change, while the two-sided engraving acknowledges that moving through a difficult season can be both meaningful and frustrating.

What does the necklace say on the front and back?

The front is laser engraved with “this too shall pass” alongside a minimalist butterfly. The reverse reads “But What the Fuck,” adding a little humor to an otherwise inspirational message.

Is this a double-sided engraved necklace?

Yes. Both sides of the horizontal bar are laser engraved, giving the necklace a meaningful message on the front and a private sarcastic continuation on the back.

Is this a good gift for someone going through a breakup or divorce?

Absolutely. It's especially fitting for a woman navigating heartbreak, divorce, or an unexpected fresh start. The combination of a meaningful butterfly design, encouragement, and humor makes it a thoughtful gift for someone who doesn't need another lecture about staying positive.

What finishes are available?

Choose from stainless steel, 18K gold-plated, or 18K rose gold-plated finishes.

How long is the necklace?

The chain measures approximately 17.7 inches (45 cm) with an additional 2-inch (5 cm) extender, allowing you to adjust the length.

How large is the pendant?

The horizontal bar measures approximately 6 × 39 mm (0.24 × 1.54 inches), giving it a slim, minimalist appearance that's easy to wear every day.

Does the necklace include a message card?

The necklace is paired with a coordinating Living In Between butterfly encouragement card featuring a reminder about personal growth, surviving difficult seasons, and recognizing how far you've come.

Can I request a different engraving?

Custom jewelry requests may be possible depending on the design. If you're interested in a different saying or personalized engraving, contact info@living-in-between.com to discuss available options.