Custom Mixed Metal Edgy Bar Necklace – Sterling Silver and 14K Gold Filled

Sometimes you want to say something meaningful. Sometimes you want to say something completely inappropriate. And sometimes you want to say both, depending on who's asking.

That's the beauty of jewelry that lets you choose your own message.

Our Custom Mixed Metal Bar Necklace is for the woman who likes her jewelry pretty, her opinions strong, and her personality entirely her own.

Made with sterling silver and 14K gold fill, this mixed metal necklace features a brushed silver bar accented with a contrasting gold circle. The combination is simple, a little unexpected, and just edgy enough to make someone look twice.

And the best part? You get to choose your saying.

Make it funny. Make it meaningful. Make it something only you and your best friend understand. Or choose a message that says exactly what you're thinking without requiring you to actually say it out loud.

We're particularly fond of that last option.

A Custom Bar Necklace with a Little Attitude

There are plenty of necklaces that look pretty sitting in a jewelry box.

But the best ones feel like you.

Maybe you're the woman who's finally learning to speak her mind. Maybe you've developed a healthy appreciation for sarcasm. Or maybe you've spent enough years being polite about things that deserved a very different response.

Whatever your story, this personalized mixed metal necklace gives you a way to wear a little piece of it.

The brushed silver bar keeps the design understated, while the gold accent adds just enough contrast to make it interesting.

The example pictured features an engraved middle-finger illustration, which pretty much sums up the energy we're going for.

Delicate jewelry. Strong opinions. Zero explanations necessary.

Mixed Metal Jewelry for Women Who Make Their Own Rules

Whoever decided women had to choose between gold and silver clearly had too much time on their hands.

We have enough decisions to make. Our jewelry shouldn't be one of them.

This sterling silver and gold-filled bar necklace combines both metals in one design, making it easy to wear with the pieces you already love.

Brushed Sterling Silver Bar

The horizontal rectangular pendant features a softly brushed silver finish that gives the necklace a relaxed, understated look.

It's simple enough for everyday wear but has enough personality to stand out from an ordinary bar necklace.

14K Gold-Filled Accent

A contrasting circular gold accent sits on the silver bar, adding warmth and dimension to the design.

The combination creates a modern mixed metal look that pairs naturally with both gold and silver jewelry.

Sterling Silver Flat Oval Cable Chain

The pendant hangs from a sterling silver flat oval cable chain, giving the necklace a delicate finish that complements the mixed metal design.

Wear it alone when you want the message to do the talking, or layer it with your favorite necklaces for a more personal look.

Your Message, Your Rules

The supplier offers a choice of sayings, so you can select the message that feels most like you.

Whether your style leans sentimental, sarcastic, or somewhere gloriously in between, the right words can turn a pretty necklace into something personal.

Choose a message that makes you laugh, reminds you how far you've come, or captures an inside joke you'll never get tired of.

Because not every meaningful piece of jewelry needs to say something inspirational.

Sometimes the most empowering thing you can wear is exactly what everyone wishes you'd kept to yourself.

A Funny, Meaningful Gift for Your Favorite Woman

You know that friend who can communicate an entire opinion with one look?

The one who's always there when you need her, tells you the truth even when you don't want to hear it, and has absolutely no problem saying what everyone else is thinking?

This necklace has her name written all over it.

Well, not literally. Unless that's one of the available options.

The Custom Mixed Metal Bar Necklace makes a fun birthday gift, best friend gift, breakup gift, divorce gift, or just-because present for the woman who appreciates jewelry with a little personality.

It's also a thoughtful choice for someone starting over, finding her voice, or celebrating the fact that she's no longer interested in being everybody's favorite people-pleaser.

And if you're buying it for yourself?

Even better.

You've spent enough of your life worrying about what other people think. You might as well wear something that makes you smile.

Pretty jewelry. Your message. Your rules.

Custom Mixed Metal Bar Necklace Details

• Style: Horizontal bar pendant necklace
• Materials: Sterling silver and 14K gold fill
• Design: Brushed silver bar with contrasting gold circular accent
• Chain: Sterling silver flat oval cable chain
• Customization: Choose your saying from the available options
• Finish: Mixed metal gold and silver
• Pendant: Rectangular bar with decorative circular accent
• Featured Example: Engraved middle-finger illustration
• Style Personality: Edgy, minimalist, funny, and meaningful

Exact pendant dimensions and available chain lengths should be confirmed before purchase. The supplier lists an approximate measurement of 1/4" x .25", which requires clarification.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can I choose the saying on my necklace?

Yes! The supplier offers a selection of sayings. Choose your favorite from the available options when ordering.

Is this necklace made from real sterling silver?

Yes. According to the supplier, the necklace features sterling silver and 14K gold-filled components, including a sterling silver flat oval cable chain.

Can I wear mixed metal jewelry with gold and silver accessories?

Absolutely. That's one of the best things about mixed metal jewelry. The combination makes it easy to pair this necklace with both gold and silver pieces.

Is the middle-finger design the only option?

No. The middle-finger illustration is the design shown in the supplied photograph, but the supplier states that additional sayings are available.

Is this a good gift for a friend going through a breakup?

Definitely, especially if she's reached the stage where her sense of humor is coming back and her tolerance for nonsense is not.

Can I layer this necklace with other jewelry?

Yes. The delicate chain and horizontal pendant make it a lovely piece to wear alone or combine with other necklaces.